Homecoming Queen with Down Syndrome

Steve Harvey is mostly associated with “The Kings of Comedy”, where he really got his start in the entertainment business.  I really love his talk show, “The Steve Harvey Show”.  It is full of comedy and entertainment but one of the best things about it are the personal stories of the people he interviews on the show.

Most of the time, they are not celebrity guests, like most of the other talk shows on t.v. today.  They are just everyday people who, to me, are trying to make a difference in someone’s life.  A few weeks ago, he had on Jessica Giddens, a girl with Down Syndrome who was chosen Homecoming Queen at her high school.  Her mom did not realize how many friends her daughter had or how loved she was by the student body.

I was really glad he chose to interview her for a couple different reasons.  First, she really shows the world that her disability is not an obstacle to what she wants to achieve.  Even a few of her classmates were interviewed and they said that because of her outlook and the way she lives her life, she has helped  them realize that their everyday struggles aren’t so bad.  Second, during the interview, she was very funny and seemed to be very much a people person.

If you have read my blog before, you know that I am no way into getting or giving someone pity because they have a disability. I feel like this is an important interview for me to talk about  not because she was being pitied, far from it.  It’s just that sometimes people take for granted the good things that are going on in their lives.  Jessica and her classmates are an excellent example of making the best of what you have and making yourself shine.

What are some examples that make you stop and be appreciative of the things in your life?

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Disability on Television: A History

Something that has always been interesting to me is seeing disabled characters being portrayed on t.v.  I am not sure if it is because I remember seeing Geri Jewell on “The Facts of Life” and thinking… there’s someone else with C.P.  Then I started thinking about how disabled characters have “matured” over time.  What I mean by that is I feel like with each character that is shown on t.v., the characters are made stronger and more independent with the passage of time.  

Though the list I am about to share is a small one, I feel like it is representative of how disability has “grown up” in the media’s eyes.  I am also going to say, and others will probably agree, that people who are disabled are still very under represented on television and hopefully, in the future, that will change.

Here is my list of people who have brought disability into living rooms everywhere and made the topic more relatable to others:

1. Geri Jewell– She was on the “Facts of Life” and played Blair’s cousin.  This was probably one of the first portrayals of disability on t.v. that showed a disabled person being just like everyone else.

2. Marlee Matlin– Most recently, she was a contestant on “Dancing with the Stars” but, to me, Marlee Matlin has had many other memorable roles.  I know she was in “Children of a Lesser God” and won an Academy Award for her performance in the movie.  To me, the fact that she is a person with a disability who has won such a prestigious award, speaks volumes about overcoming society’s stereotypes  and everyday barriers in general.  My favorite portrayal of hers was in a show called “Picket Fences” where she played a bank robber and then, later, was the  mayor.  It was a fun role that, again, showed someone with a disability in an everyday kind of person manner.

3. Chris Burke – He played Corky on “Life Goes On”.  This is someone with Down Syndrome who was dealing with everyday problems on television.  I feel like he helped people realize that people with different types of disabilities could live their life just like anyone else.  It also showed that they went through the same things as everyone else even though they live with a disability.  When I saw this show, I really felt like people who live with Down Syndrome were being portrayed in a very honest manner. 

4. Laura Innes– She was one of the doctors on “ER”.  This was the first time I had ever seen a person with a disability actually being a doctor on television.  Though I am very aware that there are doctors with disabilities in the “real” world, I felt like this was the first time a disabled character had a position of power.

5. Jim Byrnes– If you have ever caught “Highlander: The Series” in the 90’s, you will remember this character.  He was Duncan McLeod’s “watcher”.  Though his disability was not the main focus of his character, and it shouldn’t have been, it was very refreshing to see him in a helping capacity.

6. Andrea Friedman– She has been on “Life Goes On”  and some other shows as well but, I picked to put her on my list for her role as Katie on “Law and Order: SVU”.  Until now, this has to be my favorite character.  Not because she was a victim, though I felt like that part of the show could also open the door for some good dialogue about the subject, but because she was pregnant and wanted to be a mom to her baby.  I was very happy that her character gave people the opportunity to think of people who are disabled as perspective parents too, something you definitely don’t see too often on television.

The following was certainly a small list but, it is evidence of the wide range of roles that have been developed to show people with a disability on television.  What have you learned from seeing people with disabilities being portrayed on television?

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International Day of Persons with Disabilities: A few Thoughts

This past Monday was International Day of Persons with Disabilities.  This day was started by the United Nations in an effort to help others understand disability issues and bring about disability awareness to the general public.  It has been promoted by the U.N. since 1992.

Every year, this day has had a different theme.  This year’s theme was “Removing Barriers to Create an Inclusive and Accessible Society for All”.  This is a great thing to focus on for many different reasons. 

First, there is the importance of accessible buildings for people who are disabled.  Since the passage of the Americans with Disabilities Act (ADA), it is not such a huge issue but, there are still places that a person who uses a wheelchair cannot go into because of its lack of accessibility.  I remember when I went to elementary school and because I used a wheelchair, I had to go to a school that was nowhere near where I lived.  That was because it was the only school that was accessible for me to attend.  This may not sound like too much of a big deal, but, when you have to travel for hours on a bus, in a seated position, it is not the most comfortable thing in the world.  If there were an accessible school near my house at that time, I wouldn’t have had to make such a long trek to and from home just to go to school everyday. 

Secondly, having an accessible society also allows people who are disabled to participate in everyday things such as shopping or going to see a movie in a movie theater.  It is my belief that if people can go out and do things like shop for their groceries in the store, they will feel like they have done something important for themselves.  This can lead to improved self-esteem.  I know there are some places that deliver groceries to your home these days, and if you like to use that service, that is just fine too.  I just think people should have the option  of either method of shopping instead of feeling like they are stuck in their homes.

Now, a few words on inclusion.  I know that this is still a work in progress, like all the other issues that disabled people face on a daily basis.  To me, inclusion means in the arena of Employment as well as in Schools, just to name a couple.  These environments have certainly become more disability-friendly but, I feel like they still have a few bumps in the road that need to be smoothed out.  In our schools today, there are a lot more students receiving the services they need in the least restrictive environment and, more importantly,  reaching their educational goals.  Even though unemployment of people with disabilities is higher than other parts of the population, those who are in the workforce are successful in getting and maintaining their jobs.

All in all, I am really happy that the United Nations has brought more awareness to disability issues by observing International Day of Persons with Disabilities.  I believe that the more information that is available to the public on different disability issues, the more likely myths and fears that people have about living with a disability will melt away.

What other themes could be covered in the coming years?

For more information you can go to: http://www.un.org/disabilities/default.asp?id=1597

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