Student Disability Services and their Expanding Possibilities

It’s back to school time once again.  For most students, this means shopping lists of new clothes, shoes and books, just to name a few things.  If you’re a college student with a disability, it’s also time to get the required paperwork in to the Students with Disabilities Office at your college or University so that you can get the accommodations you might need to complete your coursework in each class.   The Office of Students with Disabilities Services that’s available at Colleges and Universities does a good job helping those students navigate the academic part of being a student.  There are however gaps in the services provided that can and should be filled.  This article will outline some ideas that might make the experience students gain from utilizing the services provided a fuller one in what it is to be a college student.

Although historically this office was started by students with disabilities, the human touch of this idea is almost nonexistent.  Colleges and Universities should allow this to also be a place where students can gather and talk with other disabled students about experiences like dating and socializing in a college atmosphere that’s specific to them. Even if the specific office isn’t used as an area for this type of dialogue to occur, something like having a mentor, in the form of an older student to share advice from a disability standpoint would be beneficial to all students involved.  This idea would also help the student develop socially if, for example, it is their first time away from home.  Most of the time college is a young adult’s first experience in the “real world”.  It could even be a comforting thought to have a “buddy” waiting for them on their new adventure.  This idea doesn’t have to be mandatory but, at least be offered to new or transfer students so they get the opportunity to participate in such a program.

Workshops packed with valuable real-life information could also be offered.  As a result students could increase their base of information and be more informed about the world around them outside of academics. Guest speakers or webinars should be offered to students so they get the full experience of what it means to be a young adult.  A survey could be conducted to find out what topics students might be interested in getting more information about.  A range of topics could be offered in a relaxed environment, and would also be another opportunity for students to socialize with each other.  Additionally, it could be an opportunity to make connections out in the community that might benefit students in the future.

Finally, transitional information for things like housing and employment options for people with disabilities could be available.  This would be particularly helpful so those students who are going to live alone for the first time after college won’t be so apprehensive about the experience.  The services various offices of students with disability services make available on all campuses are invaluable to each student they help.  They provide services and supports to those students that utilize the office and help engage students on different levels as well as in different areas.  These are simply some suggestions which could only enhance the experience of being a college student with a disability.

Potty Training Made Easier

Potty Training your toddler can be a daunting task for any parent, much less one who has a disability.  When I started training my son during the day, I’d lead him to the bathroom every twenty to thirty minutes so there wouldn’t be the inevitable accident most parents dread.  This went on until he got into a routine and no longer needed supervision.  I was so proud that not only did he gain a bit more independence from me but, that was less time I had to worry about changing diapers. Step one was complete.  The next phase was night time training. This was something I wasn’t looking forward to in the least.  I’d been told stories about how I’d be changing sheets at 3 o’clock in the morning and having extra loads of laundry to look forward to.  Needless to say this  wasn’t appealing to me at all.  At the same time, I knew I’d have to take the bull by the horns sooner or later and pretty much conquer the unknown.

We started the journey of night time training by implementing the idea of using the bathroom before nap time.  My idea was not to inundate him with the full transition all at once.  I also took an extra step and bought a plastic mattress cover that I placed underneath the sheets.  Then, we made a trip to the store and I bought extra underwear along with a few extra sets of pajamas.  Surely, I thought to myself,  this was going to equal so many more loads of laundry than is normally the case.  While going through the aisles, I stumbled upon Goodnites Disposable Bed Mats.  I decided to give them a try and put them on top of my son’s sheets to see what would happen.  I figured at the very least, they might save me from doing some extra laundry.  I was pleasantly surprised to find the few times I needed to change them (yes, and it was at 3 in the morning), they were absorbent and did not even wet  down to the sheets in the slightest.  It’s not generally been my habit in the past to use my posts to review products, or endorse one thing or another either way, however, I feel I’d be doing readers a disservice if I didn’t attempt to give tips to parents who are both disabled and not disabled on ideas that might help getting through these milestones a bit easier.

Because of the limited use of my hand, I found changing the pad, instead of changing his sheets to be fast and easy.  One pointer I can think of is to be careful when you are initially putting a pad on the sheets.  The adhesive side of the pads are super sticky so be prepared to immediately put it down on the mattress.  If not, it’s possible that it will stick together.  This could be an unnecessary headache, especially at 3 in the morning.  The only extra suggestion I have as far as using this product would be to buy a few packs at a time, at least in the beginning.  In the end, this product has made the experience an even easier task to tackle then I originally thought it would be.  It’s also made the transition for my son to be fully toilet trained faster than expected.  As a result, he has become even more independent than before, and wakes up dry every morning.  This makes both of us proud that we’ve conquered yet another goal together with shining success.

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